Do Be Do

Dobedo.

Sounds like it should be a refrain to a song.  It is in fact the refrain to our lives; are we human beings or human doings.

In our society we are judged by what we do, what we achieve and what we accomplish.  When we were young we were praised for the things that … Read more


SAD

The clocks have gone back and we are at that time of year where it is very possible that we don’t get to see the outside in daylight.

I hate it.

I’ve never been diagnosed but over the years I’m pretty sure that I suffer from SAD or Seasonal Affective Disorder. SAD is when our … Read more


Privacy

Today has just been one of those days where I don’t feel like  I’ve had my needs met..or rather, that I have managed to meet my own needs.

My lovely start to half term was a screaming worthy of raising the dead and which led into a half hour sharing circle to try and establish … Read more


Contentment

It’s been a weird few weeks.

I saw my coach 2 weeks ago and had nothing really to say…it was all good.  When I saw her this week I was perplexed.

I seem to have  lost my drive.

I’m really happy to come home and hang out with the family.  I’m enjoying having time to … Read more


Introversion, extroversion and Highly Sensitive People

My mother used to say I was like Gretta Garbo, although I didn’t know who Greta Garbo was, I knew that she wanted to be alone.

I was also the kid who was supposed to go on stage to sing Away in  a Manger but ended up hiding by my mum with her trying to … Read more


Do nice girls Hate?

I think I mentioned that in the summer I’d played the Transformation Game.  I played it to understand more about my relationship with someone, but what came up was Hate.

I’m capitalizing Hate because it felt like a villain who had arrived in my identity with no  introduction, invitation or desire.

I’ve never really felt … Read more


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