Friends, Strangers and Facebook

Last Saturday night the kids and I were at a friend’s birthday bonfire night party with a roaring fire, beautiful fireworks, lovely people and some delicious food.  We got home about 930pm to find the house empty and dogs and partner missing.

When I checked my phone, I could see a stream of increasingly random … Read more


When bad stuff happens…form a net to hold the light

When bad stuff happens there are ripples.  Ripples beyond the specific circumstances to even those hardly involved. Who can not have been moved by the Grenfell Tower tragedy?

When bad stuff happens we look for explanations.  We want to understand how it happened, why it happened, why to me, why now, what could have stopped … Read more


Be Vulnerable, Be You

The last few weeks have been strange, I have put myself willing in situations where I have felt vulnerable.

I went on a gestalt course on how to work with sex addicts and their partners and then I was at the Barefoot Coaching Spring Conference last week where the opening session was lead by John Read more


2 Trees – the nature of relationships

P and I were talking….about the nature of relationships…your average Sunday conversation.

He used the metaphor of 2 trees standing side by side but apart which reminded me of what Kahil Gibran says in ‘The Prophet’:

Give your hearts, but not into each other’s keeping.
For only the hand of Life can contain your

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You are never alone

Do you ever feel alone?

We were away over Easter and there were times when I felt really alone.

We usually go on holiday with other people and I love having the choice to be alone or with others.  This time it was just us.  The kids had each other and most of the time … Read more


Fear

The other Saturday night we watched Lost Land of the Volcano on BBC which showed Steve Backshall, Gordon Buchanan, a giant rat (as big as a cat) and a cuscus (a tree climbing marsupial)l in a crater of an extinct volcano in New Guinea.

The cuscus was first ever seen on camera by Buchanan and … Read more


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